I saw a post on Instagram recently asking if you ever thought what your soulmate was doing right now?
I don't believe in soulmates, but I do often wonder what the guy I'm supposed to be with is doing.
Is he at a friend's BBQ, wishing he has a plus one to accompany him? Did he see a gig (solo) again? Does he look around the room at all the couples, feeling extra single?
Or is he lovin' single life, cherishing these moments he won't get back? Quality time with friends and family - uninterrupted - without outside noise.
Now, I don't stay awake thinking about this, but my mind does often wonder what he's doing and how much longer I have to wait until I meet him.
I've been told I'm impatient (guilty!), however I am 43 years old. Think I have waited long enough!
I've had a few false starts in this area, but there's never been anyone I thought I would be (or wanted to be) with long term.
It's also an exciting time right now - I feel like I am on the cusp of something really great, I just haven't reached the finish line.
Now I know they say it's all about the journey - and that's cool - but it's time I had a co-pilot.
There's also another saying about a lid for every pot. I just need to make sure I'm in the right kitchen.
This independent woman is ready for what happens next - 2024 is going to be the year!
